Leaving Nepal

I am sad to be leaving Nepal. I will head to Delhi tomorrow. My experience here has been wonderful all except for the random men who keep hitting on me. There are the kind ones whom I have met. These two great store owners not far from where I am staying who invite me in for tea everytime I walk past. One of them I bought some clothes from while another I had two pieces of jewelry made with. And the kind man in the bookstore, who called me his daughter and gave me a beaded bracelet.

The bad random men experience include being asked to dinner twice in one night. The first one was when we were walking down the street and this man who owns a gem stop said, "can I ask you a question?". So I stopped and we ended up going to their shop and chatting for 30 mins. They were nice and asked us for dinner the next night, we said we were busy but they insisted. Not 2 hours later, I was in a store buying a skirt....yes skirt, and was bargaining as is the habit here. The man and I finally agreed to a price and he then said I had to go out for a beer with him, cause he gave me such a good price, well I said no, then his friend grabbed my arm and said dinner then, tomorrow...I said I was busy, then the day after...they were insistant and would not let go of my arm....finally I said, sorry I am leaving Kathmandu tomorrow and cannot come to dinner....they then shook my hand for what felt like 10 mins. Man, I was glad to get out of that store.

So, last night we had our hot date with the gem boys....I called up two guys we know here in Kathmandu, one a peace corp volunteer we met while volunteering, and the other the director of the org. we volunteered with, Purna. We go to the gem shop to meet the boys and it was not pretty. The gem boys were not happy we brought two guy friends with us, and our Nepali friend was not impressed with the gem boys. So, after standing around akwardly I suggest we go for dinner. The Gem boys said they would meet us at the restaurant but they did not end up showing up. I think they were rather put off that we brought other guys with us. My friend, Purna said that they were probably hoping to pick up two "Japanese girls". It was kind of funny cause I could tell that Purna was sizing up the guys and that the gem boys were sizing him up. I could see the reactions on both their faces.

Anyways, it has been fun. Our last night in Kathmandu was spent dancing in a Nepali restaurant. It is fun to dance to music you don't know and just be free and not worry about how silly you look. I enjoyed myself a lot. At the end of the night we were given applause and comments on our dancing.

Onto Delhi now....scary....